Ps Dr Philip Lyn writing for
WeeklyBlog
, 23/09/08
Heard this love story of two elderly people? He was a widower and she a widow.
One evening at a community supper in the senior citizens centre, they sat at the
same table, across from each other. As the meal went on, he finally gathered up
courage to ask her, 'Will you marry me?' After a minute of 'careful consideration,'
she answered, 'Yes, I will.' When the evening was over, they exchanged phone numbers,
promised to be in touch and left for their respective homes.
Next morning, he was troubled. Did she say 'yes' or 'no'? He couldn't remember!
With trepidation, he phoned her, and after a few pleasantries about the previous
evening, asked: 'When I asked you to marry me, did you say 'Yes' or ‘No’?
‘I said “Yes!”’, she replied. 'And luckily you called,
because I knew I had said yes to someone but I couldn’t remember who it
was!” Haha. Point of joke? Well, growing old and falling in love doesn’t
make it any more mature. So what does?
Maturing in love is ultimately a mark of spiritual maturity. It’s not
measured by status (are you a leader?) or stature (are you respected?) but of
substance (how much of Christ is in you, how much does he have of you, how great
is He in you?). It is about the Divine process initiated by the great Cosmic
Lover Himself and revealed to us through the Cross. The present sermon series
on 1 John: “Loving God and Loving One Another”, today, takes us
into the area of maturing in love.
John speaks of three levels of Christian living: as little children, as young
men and as fathers (1 Jn 2: 12-14). Each level is characterized by an increasing
firsthand experience of who God our Father is and whether we overcome the wicked
one in his attempts to sabotage our journeys. It is premised on truth and on
the singular pursuit of God in a world that hawks lust and pride as attractive
alternatives (v 15-17). What will keep us from falling and staying us in God’s
love? Ultimately it is the anointing within that we need to cultivate (v 27).
His presence- that will keep us!